Sunday, July 17, 2016

REAL (00): Sons of God and daughters of men

Someone asked me about Gen.6:2. What can I answer him? Who are those sons of God who married those girls of men?Please, help me answer him because I know nothing about it.Thanks. Jeremy


They were angels who took the form of men to foster a new generation to avoid the coming of the SEED, the Messiah! 

“And the angels which kept not their first estate, but left their own habitation, he hath reserved in everlasting chains under darkness unto the judgment of the great day.”Jude 1:6 KJV

That is the reason God destroyed all humans and left only Noah and his family! 

“And it came to pass, when men began to multiply on the face of the earth, and daughters were born unto them, That the sons of God saw the daughters of men that they were fair; and they took them wives of all which they chose.

There were giants in the earth in those days; and also after that, when the sons of God came in unto the daughters of men, and they bare children to them, the same became mighty men which were of old, men of renown. And God saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every imagination of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually. And it repented the Lord that he had made man on the earth, and it grieved him at his heart. And the Lord said, I will destroy man whom I have created from the face of the earth; both man, and beast, and the creeping thing, and the fowls of the air; for it repenteth me that I have made them.”
Genesis 6:1-2, 4-7 KJV

JSalum

Friday, July 15, 2016

Grace Quiz: Forgiveness: a message of the cross By Josimar Salum


Forgiveness: a message of the cross 
By Josimar Salum

What is there about the message of the cross that is folly, that makes no sense for Gentiles and it is a stumbling block for the Jews? 

“Our firm decision is to work from this focused center: One man died for everyone. That puts everyone in the same boat. He included everyone in his death so that everyone could also be included in his life, a resurrection life, a far better life than people ever lived on their own. 

Because of this decision we don’t evaluate people by what they have or how they look. We looked at the Messiah that way once and got it all wrong, as you know. We certainly don’t look at him that way anymore. 

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.

The old life is gone; a new life burgeons! 

Look at it! All this comes from the God who settled the relationship between us and him, and then called us to settle our relationships with each other. 

God put the world square with himself through the Messiah, giving the world a fresh start by offering forgiveness of sins. 

God has given us the task of telling everyone what he is doing. We’re Christ’s representatives. God uses us to persuade men and women to drop their differences and enter into God’s work of making things right between them. We’re speaking for Christ himself now: Become friends with God; he’s already a friend with you.” 2 Corinthians 5:14-20 MSG (v.17, ESV)

It may be difficult to completely understand what God has done already to forgive all our sins, so let me show you this passage in another versions:

“To wit, that God was in Christ, reconciling the world unto himself, not imputing their trespasses unto them." 2 Corinthians 5:19 KJV

“It was God [personally present] in Christ, reconciling and restoring the world to favor with Himself, not counting up and holding against [men] their trespasses [but cancelling them], and committing to us the message of reconciliation (of the restoration to favor).” 2 Corinthians 5:19 AMP

That is overwhelmingly marvelous. What Jesus did when he died? He forgave all sins of the world, he forgave the sins of the entire humanity, he forgave all sins committed by all people since Adam, all sins that will ever be committed even the sins of the last human that will be born on Earth or in any place of the universe!

Jesus was not pretending, he was not faking when He asked to the Father to forgive all those people who made Him suffer and crucified him on the cross. Even if after they heard him asking the Father to forgive them they kept doing the same things. What do you think? Did God forgave them even if they didn't repent? Is God forgiveness conditional? Even if they did not ask for forgiveness, even if they had never repented they were forgiven! Simply because Jesus asked the Father. It is so simply. Jesus Himself had forgiven them! 

“And Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do." And they cast lots to divide his garments.”
Luke 23:34 ESV

Thursday, July 14, 2016

REAL (00) - Sinful cycles of religion by JSalum & Paul Taylor


Sinful cycles of religion by JSalum & Paul Taylor 

Burgeon means sprout, flourish, bloom. 

The old life is fine, the new life sprouts!

The old life is fine for many Christians and it includes all religious obligations. Many live in the same way they lived before. If they were Catholics they use to confess the sins to the priest and the next time they would confess the same sins. 

Many Pentecostals are in the same way! Adventists! And many others! Many are always struggling with the old life while trying to live the new one, as if the new life would be lived by their own endeavor.

They act like this! I have to pray! To read the bible! To come to church every day! If I go to church every day I will be more holy, I will sin less, and so forth.  

There are Christians that if they missed a Sunday service they feel so guilty for the rest of the week!

The old life was a cycle: sinning, asking forgiveness, then sinning with the same sins, then asking forgiveness. And then after they became Christians they sin, feel guilty, then go to the "altar at the church" to ask for prayer, then sin again! What a miserable life! 

Jesus wants to set you free from this cycle! 

Burgeon means sprout, flourish, bloom. 

The old life IS GONE, the new life sprouts!

You don't have to make any effort to bear fruits of righteousness in the same way a mango tree doesn't sweat to bear mangos! 

Dr. Salum, 

You were just describing my life. I was raised to be in church as often as the doors of the church were open. If my family and I were on vacation camping, I would make everyone get around the campfire and we would have our service.  The guilt would be unbearable.  So great to be free and getting freer every day. Amen 

Dr. Taylor




REAL 57 - 1/12 - Grace Quiz - Should God’s children ask Him to forgive and cleanse them when they sin? Josimar Salum


1/12 - GRACE QUIZ- Should God’s children ask Him to forgive and cleanse them when they sin? Josimar Salum

“For I decided to know nothing among you except Jesus Christ and him crucified.” 1 Corinthians 2:2 ESV

“For the word of the cross is folly to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God.

For since, in the wisdom of God, the world did not know God through wisdom, it pleased God through the folly of what we preach to save those who believe. For Jews demand signs and Greeks seek wisdom, but we preach Christ crucified, a stumbling block to Jews and folly to Gentiles, but to those who are called, both Jews and Greeks, Christ the power of God and the wisdom of God.” 1 Corinthians 1:18, 21-24 ESV

What is there about the message of the cross that is folly, that makes no sense for Gentiles and it is a stumbling block for the Jews? 

“Our firm decision is to work from this focused center: One man died for everyone. That puts everyone in the same boat. He included everyone in his death so that everyone could also be included in his life, a resurrection life, a far better life than people ever lived on their own. 

Because of this decision we don’t evaluate people by what they have or how they look. We looked at the Messiah that way once and got it all wrong, as you know. We certainly don’t look at him that way anymore. 

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.

The old life is gone; a new life burgeons! 

Look at it! All this comes from the God who settled the relationship between us and him, and then called us to settle our relationships with each other. 

God put the world square with himself through the Messiah, giving the world a fresh start by offering forgiveness of sins. 

God has given us the task of telling everyone what he is doing. We’re Christ’s representatives. God uses us to persuade men and women to drop their differences and enter into God’s work of making things right between them. We’re speaking for Christ himself now: Become friends with God; he’s already a friend with you.” 2 Corinthians 5:14-20 MSG (v.17, ESV)

It may be difficult to completely understand what God has done already to forgive all our sins, so let me show you this passage in another versions:

“To wit, that God was in Christ, reconciling the world unto himself, not imputing their trespasses unto them." 2 Corinthians 5:19 KJV

“It was God [personally present] in Christ, reconciling and restoring the world to favor with Himself, not counting up and holding against [men] their trespasses [but cancelling them], and committing to us the message of reconciliation (of the restoration to favor).” 2 Corinthians 5:19 AMP

That is overwhelmingly marvelous. What Jesus did when he died? He forgave all sins of the world, he forgave the sins of the entire humanity, he forgave all sins committed by all people since Adam, by all sins that will ever be committed even the sins of the last human that will be born on Earth or in any place of the universe!

Jesus was not pretending, he was not faking when He asked to the Father to forgive all those people who made Him suffer and crucified him on the cross. Even if after they heard him asking the Father to forgive them they kept doing the same things. What do you think? Did God forgave them even if they didn't repent? Is God forgiveness conditional? Even if they did not ask for forgiveness, even if they had never repented they were forgiven! Simply because Jesus asked the Father. It is so simply. Jesus Himself had forgiven them! 

“And Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do." And they cast lots to divide his garments.”
Luke 23:34 ESV


PROCLAIMING THE FORGIVENESS OF ALL SINS 

The apostles were to proclaim what Jesus had already done and not what He would do in the future. Repentance and forgiveness of sins should be proclaimed in his name to all nations, beginning from Jerusalem. We do not preach: Repent and be forgiven. The message of the Gospel is: You are all forgiven! Repent! Receive God's forgiveness.

“Then he opened their minds (the minds of the apostles and others who were with them) to understand the Scriptures, and said to them, "Thus it is written, that the Christ should suffer and on the third day rise from the dead, and that repentance and forgivenesses of sins should be proclaimed in his name to all nations, beginning from Jerusalem.” Luke 24:45-47 ESV

God has forgiven all sins of all men and all women. The Gospel carries an outstanding and extravagant message. God forgave us of all sins we have committed and shall ever commit in our entire life. In Jesus we have redemption through His blood. Redemption is the forgiveness of our trespasses.

We were not redeemed when we received Jesus as our King and Lord. We were not redeemed when were born again, or delivered, or when we were saved. Actually we were not saved when we received Jesus. When the Scriptures say we will be saved, it is because we were saved. And we were not saved simply when we said the "sinner's prayer." We were saved before the world began. We were saved when Jesus died on the cross and rose from the dead.

“Knowing that you were not redeemed with corruptible things, like silver or gold, from your aimless conduct received by tradition from your fathers, but with the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot. He indeed was foreordained before the foundation of the world, but was manifest in these last times for you who through Him believe in God, who raised Him from the dead and gave Him glory, so that your faith and hope are in God.” I Peter 1:18-21 NKJV

“In Him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace, which he lavished upon us, in all wisdom and insight making known to us the mystery of his will, according to his purpose, which he set forth in Christ as a plan for the fullness of time, to unite all things in him, things in heaven and things on earth." Ephesians 1:7-10 ESV

Read this again in a similar perspective:

“Because of the sacrifice of the Messiah, his blood poured out on the altar of the Cross, we’re a free people—free of penalties and punishments chalked up by all our misdeeds. And not just barely free, either. Abundantly free! He thought of everything, provided for everything we could possibly need, letting us in on the plans he took such delight in making. He set it all out before us in Christ, a long-range plan in which everything would be brought together and summed up in him, everything in deepest heaven, everything on planet earth.” Ephesians 1:7-10 MSG

We don't need to ask God for forgiveness and the cleansing of our sins. He already did. 

“Cut to the quick, those who were there listening asked Peter and the other apostles, “Brothers! Brothers! So now what do we do?” Peter said, “Repent. Turn to God and be baptized, each of you, in the name of Jesus Christ, so your sins are forgiven. Receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. The promise is targeted to you and your children, but also to all who are far away—whomever, in fact, our Master God invites.”” Acts 2:37-39 MSG

Repent! Turn to God! Be baptized! Your sins are forgiven! Because your sins are forgiven do not continue thinking the way you think, do not keep on sinning! Receive the gift of the Holy Spirit! 

The forgiveness of sin is a completed matter for God. The death of Christ has completed all that it is needed for salvation, redemption, healing, forgiveness and everything else for all human kind. Men and women should repent and confess sins to receive what it is already available in Jesus. Confessing and repenting is not a condition to be forgiven, it is our side to receive what Jesus has already done. He has forgiven us, then we confess, then we repent. We don't receive forgiveness because we have repented. We receive forgiveness because Jesus has already forgave us! 

“Forgiving  one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do.”
Colossians 3:13 NKJV

 “To open their eyes, and to turn them from darkness to light, and from the power of Satan unto God, that they may receive forgiveness of sins, and inheritance among them which are sanctified by faith that is in me.” Acts 26:18 KJV

They receive what it is already provided, it is done!

“Be it known unto you therefore, men and brethren, that through this man is preached unto you the forgiveness of sins: And by him all that believe are justified from all things, from which ye could not be justified by the law of Moses.” Acts 13:38-39 KJV


Jesus is the propitiation of the sins of the whole world. 

“My little children, these things write I unto you, that ye sin not. And if any man sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous: And he is the propitiation for our sins: and not for ours only, but also for the sins of the whole world.” 1 John 2:1-2 KJV

Propitiation is the Mercy Seat of God. It is the place in God Himself that all men whoever they are and wherever they have done can find mercy. Jesus is the atoning sacrifice who with his atoning blood has appeased Himself not just for all confessed sins, but all sins. There is no sin that He didn't die for. Alleluia! A thousand alleluias!

“And over it the cherubims of glory shadowing the mercyseat; of which we cannot now speak particularly.”
Hebrews 9:5 KJV

The redemption and forgiveness of sins are eternal! He did at once! 

We need to be conscious of God. Unfortunately there are many "believers" who are sin conscious. They are not free yet. They did not receive yet the forgiveness of sin. They are not able to accept the powerful and unquestionable truth that they need nothing, but only faith in Jesus, only repentance into the amazing Grace of God.  

“Neither by the blood of goats and calves, but by his own blood he entered in once into the holy place, having obtained eternal redemption for us.

How much more shall the blood of Christ, who through the eternal Spirit offered himself without spot to God, purge your conscience from dead works to serve the living God? And for this cause he is the mediator of the new testament, that by means of death, for the redemption of the transgressions that were under the first testament, they which are called might receive the promise of eternal inheritance.” Hebrews 9:12, 14-15 KJV

Preaching the Gospel is not announcing  a list of things to be done right so you can have the right to the benefits of God. No. The Gospel gives knowledge of salvation by the remission of sins through the tender mercy of God! The Gospel is the annunciation of God's total provision through the blood of Jesus. The people need to have knowledge of salvation by the remission of their sins. 

““And you, child, will be called the prophet of the Highest; For you will go before the face of the Lord to prepare His ways, To give knowledge of salvation to His people By the remission of their sins, Through the tender mercy of our God, With which the Dayspring from on high has visited us;”
Luke 1:76-78 NKJV

There is a New Covenant. And the New Covenant depends on Jesus alone. 

“For this is the covenant that I will make with the house of Israel after those days, says the LORD: I will put My laws in their mind and write them on their hearts; and I will be their God, and they shall be My people. None of them shall teach his neighbor, and none his brother, saying, ‘Know the LORD,’ for all shall know Me, from the least of them to the greatest of them. For I will be merciful to their unrighteousness, and their sins and their lawless deeds I will remember no more.” In that He says, “A new covenant,” He has made the first obsolete. Now what is becoming obsolete and growing old is ready to vanish away." Hebrews 8:10-13

There is nothing you and I can do to help God to save us. It is done already! It is completed! There is no way you can explain this, if you do, you became God! I myself simply can't!

When the children of God grasp the understanding of this extravagant Grace they will not live in fear anymore, they will not be manipulated to do anything under fear or constrain by anyone, by anything, but they will be totally free to enjoy their Relationship with their Father. If I was already accepted before when we believed in Him how much He does accept me now! Why doubt about his forgiveness and love? Why doubt we are accepted by him or not? Why let somebody else blame you, accuse you and make you fear that you are less, you are undeserved or still a sinner when God has made you holy and righteous?

 “Christ arrives right on time to make this happen. He didn’t, and doesn’t wait for us to get ready. He presented himself for this sacrificial death when we were far too weak and rebellious to do anything to get ourselves ready. And even if we hadn’t been so weak, we wouldn’t have known what to do anyway. We can understand someone dying for a person worth dying for, and we can understand how someone good and noble could inspire us to selfless sacrifice. But God put his love on the line for us by offering his Son in sacrificial death while we were of no use whatever to him.

Now that we are set right with God by means of this sacrificial death, the consummate blood sacrifice, there is no longer a question of being at odds with God in any way. If, when we were at our worst, we were put on friendly terms with God by the sacrificial death of his Son, now that we’re at our best, just think of how our lives will expand and deepen by means of his resurrection life! Now that we have actually received this amazing friendship with God, we are no longer content to simply say it in plodding prose. We sing and shout our praises to God through Jesus, the Messiah!”
Romans 5:6-11 MSG

My brother, my sister! Rejoice in the Lord! Shout praises to His name. Dance with Him! Let us romance with the Lover of our soul, our Friend Jesus, our caring God!



Redemption through the blood of Jesus

We have redemption through the blood of Jesus, even the forgiveness of sins because and solely for what He did.

“Giving thanks unto the Father, which hath made us meet to be partakers of the inheritance of the saints in light: Who hath delivered us from the power of darkness, and hath translated us into the kingdom of his dear Son: In whom we have redemption through his blood, even the forgiveness of sins:” Colossians 1:12-14 KJV

What then we should do? Ask Him for something He already gave? 

"For your Father knows the things you have need of before you ask Him. In this manner, therefore, pray: Our Father in heaven, Hallowed be Your name. Your kingdom come. Your will be done On earth as it is in heaven."

(THE KINGDOM IS ALREADY FINISHED, prepared since the foundation of the world.)

And forgive us our debts, As we forgive our debtors.

(This verse and similar ones are the only occasion someone ask God for forgiveness for their sins in the New Testament. But if you pay attention properly this is not much of a prayer in words than of a calling for true actions. If you forgive others you don't even need to pray this prayer. The point is not that you may pray forgive our debts, but that you have forgiven your debtors. That is what Jesus taught. 

“For if you forgive people their trespasses [their reckless and willful sins, leaving them, letting them go, and giving up resentment], your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their trespasses [their reckless and willful sins, leaving them, letting them go, and giving up resentment], neither will your Father forgive you your trespasses.”
Matthew 6:14-15 AMP

It is about benefitting from God's forgiveness as we forgive others. Remember that the work of the cross is not just reconciliation with God, but reconciliation with one another and all things.

Again: "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.” Matthew 6:8-10, 12, 14-15 NKJV

God wants repentance and confession. Repentance reaches out for our changing, to our transformation inside out and a complete turning into the newness of life in Christ. And it is about fellowship with one another, and it is not just related to our own status with God. No child of God stands alone before Him. We are a family!

“But if we walk in the light as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ His Son cleanses us from all sin. If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” I John 1:7-9 NKJV

Here lays a question. Are we forgiven today or were we already forgiven when Jesus died on the cross? 

Forgiveness is the very nature of God.  God does not just loves us. He is love. God is not just merciful. God is mercy. God is not just gracious. God is Grace! He did not just forgave us. God is a forgiving God.

Wednesday, July 13, 2016

REAL 56 - The Grace Quiz Answers


THE GRACE QUIZ ANSWERS

The following twelve faith-related concepts are not regularly discussed in many "churches" today. Our view on each of these concepts will affect our relationship with God and with our brothers and sisters.

The quiz we have shared and asked your answers for each statement was meant to assess your understating on the Grace of God. Each question required only one answer out of two options. TRUE or FALSE. 

Here are the answers:

1. God’s children should ask Him to forgive and cleanse them when they sin. False

2. God’s children struggle with sin because of their old self within.
False

3. We should wait on God even before making everyday decisions.
False

4. When we sin against God, we're out of fellowship until we repent.
False

5. Old Testament law is written on God’s children hearts so we want to obey it.
False

6. The Bible tells us that God’s children can obtain many rewards in heaven.
False

7. God’s children will give an account for their sins at the great white throne.
False

8. God’s children should tithe at least 10 percent of their income to the church to be blessed. False

9. God gets angry with us when we repeatedly sin against Him. False

10. God looks at us as though we're righteous, even though we're really not. False

11. Salvation is by grace through faith, but I have to sanctify myself every day, be a good Christian and do good works to reach heaven. False

12. When I say that Jesus saves I mean if I die I go to heaven. False

We will be sharing a series of teachings on this marvelous subject called GRACE! Oops!! It is not a subject. GRACE IS A PERSON. Let us walk with HIM.

JSALUM

Tuesday, July 12, 2016

REAL 55 - The Grace Quiz


I will introduce below a questionnaire. Please, read and respond. Your answers  are not meant to pass the test. Actually it is not a test. It is just a tool for you to evaluate your understanding of God's Grace! After you understand what the appropriate answers are you will be so blessed and some of you will laugh of joy!

THE GRACE QUIZ

Below are twelve faith-related concepts that don't seem to be regularly discussed in many churches today. 

But our view on each of these concepts affects our relationship with God, our spiritual growth and our fulfillment in life. 

So for each of the twelve concepts, decide whether you think each is TRUE or FALSE.

1. God’s children should ask Him to forgive and cleanse them when they sin.
True or False

2. God’s children struggle with sin because of their old self within.
True or False

3. We should wait on God even before making everyday decisions.
True or False

4. When we sin against God, we're out of fellowship until we repent.
True or False

5. Old Testament law is written on God’s children hearts so we want to obey it.
True or False

6. The Bible tells us that God’s children can obtain many rewards in heaven.
True or False

7. God’s children will give an account for their sins at the great white throne.
True or False

8. God’s children should tithe at least 10 percent of their income to the church to be blessed.
True or False

9. God gets angry with us when we repeatedly sin against Him.
True or False

10. God looks at us as though we're righteous, even though we're really not.
True or False

11. Salvation is by grace through faith, but I have to sanctify myself every day, be a good Christian and do good works to reach heaven.
True or False

12. When I say that Jesus saves I mean if I die I go to heaven.
True or False

Based on the book The Naked Gospel Andrew Farley Zondervan


Saturday, July 9, 2016

REAL 54 - 4/4 - Mentoring for Kingdom Purposes: Patience, Perseverance and GraceBy Bill Niconson & Josimar Salum

4/4 - Mentoring for Kingdom Purposes: Patience, Perseverance and Grace By Bill Niconson & Josimar Salum

Finally, mentoring requires patience, perseverance and grace. 

Patience is required to be able to deal with everything on the way including with the dynamics of discipleship as it deals with living people, unforeseen events, life facts and unprecedented happenings in a real world. 

Transformation is a process that requires a lot of time to be completed. It produces consequences as immediate results of changes that you and nobody basically did not want to go through. People around you will not always react positively to the changes you are experiencing. 

Perseverance is required for both mentor and mentoree in order to finish the mentorship process until the mentoree is able to mentor others in this transformational life process of making disciples of Jesus. We are all being transformed to be like Him.

“Therefore I endure everything for the sake of the elect that they too may obtain the salvation that is in Christ Jesus, with eternal glory.” (II Timothy 2:10)

“Remember those earlier days after you had received the light, when you stood your ground in a great contest in the face of suffering. 

Sometimes you were publicly exposed to insult and persecution; at other times you stood side by side with those who were so treated. 

You sympathized with those in prison and joyfully accepted the confiscation of your property, because you knew that you yourselves had better and lasting possessions. 

So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded. You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised. For in just a very little while, He who is coming will come and will not delay. 

But my righteous one will live by faith. And if he shrinks back, I will not be pleased with him." 

But we are not of those who shrink back and are destroyed, but of those who believe and are saved.” (Hebrew 10:32-38)

Mentoring requires Grace and God will gives us more Grace as we humble ourselves acknowledging that we can’t be faithful without His Spirit, we can’t transform ourselves or anybody else unless He does and that we are only His partner in the greatest business of Heaven on Earth which is transforming people like you and me into the Image of Jesus Christ.

“But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says: "God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble." (James 4:6)

Final 

Friday, July 8, 2016

REAL 53 - 3/4 - Mentoring for Kingdom Purposes: Three more Key Components By BillNiconson & Josimar Salum


3/4 - Mentoring for Kingdom Purposes: Three more Key Components By Bill Niconson & Josimar Salum

5 - Accountability

Mentoring also provides a means for accountability. Just as Jesus held His disciples accountable we must do so as well. 

The one flaw with accountability is that it is only as good as the integrity of the individual. I know that sounds contradictory but it’s true. You will only be accountable as you CHOOSE to be. I can’t make you no one can make you. 

That is the reason trust is a vital factor in the mentor relationship. We will only share our thoughts, problems, victories and triumphs to people we trust.

I suggest that in order to be successful in a mentorship process a covenant agreement should be made between the two mentoring parties, the mentor and the mentoree. This agreement should include transparency, accountability, meeting times, confidentiality and a prayer covenant. This paves the way for Mutual respect.

6 - Mutual Respect

A mentor never control or dominate the life of the one he or she is mentoring. 

Abusive models of what many have called “discipleship” have caused more damaged to people than helping them. 

The mentor based on biblical principles never makes decisions, never interferes with directions and never demands exclusive submission or total obedience to the people he or she mentors.

It must be understood clearly that we “make disciples” for Jesus. The disciples are not ours, but the Lord’s.

“The next day John was again with two of his disciples. He saw Jesus walking by. John said, "Look! The Lamb of God!" The two disciples heard him say this. So they followed Jesus.” (John 1:35-37)

The mentor is not superior to the one is mentored. Nor is the mentored superior to the mentor. Both parties will learn from each other. 

A true servant of Jesus Christ knows that it’s by the grace of God that they are who they are, a human being who was once enslaved by sin and now being transformed by the Holy Spirit. A true child of God no matter how new they are in that relationship have begun to live and experience the transforming power of Jesus Christ. 

We are all on a path towards transformation which means that no one is superior to the other. God is performing that work in all of us. “I am sure that the One who began a good work in you will carry it on until it is completed. That will be on the day Christ Jesus returns.” (Philippians 1:6 NIV)

A mentor should be willing to open up completely to the person that they are mentoring. Any question is “NOT” off limits. 

A full transparent relationship is required in order for the mentoring relationship to move forward. Authenticity matters. It’s one way and a significant way that the world knows we are who we say we are.

7 - Self denial and Sacrifice

“Large crowds were traveling with Jesus, and turning to them he said: "If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, his wife and children, his brothers and sisters—yes, even his own life—he cannot be my disciple. 

And anyone who does not carry his cross and follow me cannot be my disciple.

Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Will he not first sit down and estimate the cost to see if he has enough money to complete it? For if he lays the foundation and is not able to finish it, everyone who sees it will ridicule him, saying, 'This fellow began to build and was not able to finish.' 

Or suppose a king is about to go to war against another king. Will he not first sit down and consider whether he is able with ten thousand men to oppose the one coming against him with twenty thousand? If he is not able, he will send a delegation while the other is still a long way off and will ask for terms of peace.

In the same way, any of you who do not give up everything he has cannot be my disciple.” (Luke 14:25-33)

Jesus appointed areas of self denial you and I will follow through when becoming His disciples.

It will affect our values and priorities in life. 

Jesus Christ becomes the exclusive source of our trust, loyalty and learning resources.

Jesus Christ becomes the ultimate reason for living for or dying for.

Jesus becomes the exclusive dedication of our lives no matter what we loose or give up

The self denial and sacrifices of the mentor and the mentoree relationship is towards Jesus Christ and not to themselves. Because mentors and the ones they mentor are all equal disciples of Jesus Christ.

It is Jesus who places His priorities in our lives. Fathers, mothers, husbands, wives, children, brothers and sisters have theirs places already on Jesus’ list. Whoever prioritizes ministry over family had become worse than the unbelievers.

“If anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for his immediate family, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” (I Timothy 5:8)

To be continued 

Thursday, July 7, 2016

REAL 52 - 2/4 - Mentoring for Kingdom Purposes: Four Key Components By BillNiconson & Josimar Salum


2/4 - Mentoring for Kingdom Purposes: Four Key Components By Bill Niconson & Josimar Salum

1 - Obedience

One of the keys to being a good mentor is that it is usually something you don’t seek. It seeks you. 

Why? Because a true mentor is humble and understands their position before God. They see themselves as fortunate, blessed and loved by God and humbled just to be serving Him 

“The following day he arrived in Caesarea. Cornelius was expecting them and had called together his relatives and close friends. As Peter entered the house, Cornelius met him and fell at his feet in reverence. But Peter made him get up. "Stand up," he said, "I am only a man myself." Talking with him, Peter went inside and found a large gathering of people.” (Acts 10:24-27). 

One of the greatest blessings that can be bestowed on a Christ follower is that they be asked to be a mentor to someone.

Before someone can actually be a mentor they have to have a Christ experience. You have to know Jesus Christ as your personal Savior and Lord. Jesus can never do anything through you unless He has done something in you. You can not lead someone in Christ if you were not led. You can not lead someone if you are not following Jesus as His disciple.

It’s impossible to be a mentor unless you learn to be a follower. 

Obedience in following the Lord is a dominant characteristic in a Christ’s follower. 

”The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds. We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ. And we will be ready to punish every act of disobedience, once your obedience is complete.” (II Corinthians 10:4-6)

“Only he who believes is obedient and only he who is obedient believes.” (Dietrich Bonheoffer)

It is a very dangerous thing to put people into a relationship with another person who has never demonstrated humility and obedience in following Jesus. 

A “servant like” heart is needed in order for a mentor to be effective. 

This person thinks about the other people that God places in his/her heart. 

They move from being self-centered to becoming “other-centered”. 

“Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the sinful nature with its passions and desires. Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.” (Gal. 5:24-25)

2 - Discipline

A mentor must have the personal discipline to live a balanced life. Now it’s not to say that I mean we are “perfect” or we live like a “perfect”. 

“Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 3:12-14 NIV)

But there needs to be evidence in the mentor’s life that there is always improvement! Our lives should always be moving forward to the life that Jesus has called us to. 

A disciplined life means that we fit our lives naturally into God’s will all the time, honestly knowing this will be done as much as possible. However we will not let anything interfere or remove us from following God because if we do it means that we are out of balance. 

"Everything is permissible for me"—but not everything is beneficial. "Everything is permissible for me"—but I will not be mastered by anything” (I Cor. 6:12 NIV).

3 - Character

A mentor will be a person of character. This means that he or she will have exhibited to others the fruits of the Spirit and a mind that is focused on Christ. 

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.” (Gal. 5:22-23 NIV). 

This person will be thought of as a holy person or spiritual person and is respected by their peers (Acts 6). 

Character is the person you are when no one is looking. A person of character blesses God, themselves and others. They aren’t selfish. 

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than your selves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.” (Philippians 2:3-4)

Paul goes on to say how we, all saints of God, and in our case who are mentors should live. 

“Your attitude should be the same that Christ Jesus had. Though he was God, he did not mean and cling to his rights as God. He made himself nothing; he took the humble position of a slave and appeared in human form. And in human form he obediently humbled himself even further by dying a criminal’s death on a cross.” (Philippians 2:5-8.)

This is exemplary of the person who has great character. A mentor most likely has a mentor as well. This is a person who is completely self-aware. 

4 - Self-awareness

Because of our sinful nature is still part of our being how wicked our hearts can be! Being self-aware is acknowledging that we need help in our own lives because of our sinfulness. 

You can think that your life is good and that everything is ok. That is not only the case. We can and do deceive ourselves. This is why mentoring is important, to have someone to speak into our lives, someone we can be accountable for through a relationship free of any controlling, manipulation and oppression.

To be continued...

Wednesday, July 6, 2016

REAL 51 - 1/1 - Mentoring for Kingdom Purposes: What is it? Why mentoring?


1 - Mentoring for Kingdom Purposes: 
What is it? Why mentoring?
By Bill Niconson & Josimar Salum

What is mentoring? 

Mentoring is a biblically based model of discipleship. 

“Jesus went up on a mountainside and called to him those he wanted, and they came to him. He appointed twelve—designating them apostles—that they might be with him and that he might send them out to preach and to have authority to drive out demons.” (Mark 3:13-14 NIV).

It’s a journey to transform a person.

“As Jesus walked beside the Sea of Galilee, he saw Simon and his brother Andrew casting a net into the lake, for they were fishermen. “Come, follow me," Jesus said, "and I will make you fishers of men." (Mark 1:15-17)

It’s a sharing of experiences in all levels that help a person transforms.

“Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God—this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.” (Romans 12:1-2) 

It’s an exchange of conversations, thoughts, processes and prayers designed to help a person mature and move into leadership to the point that they begin mentoring others. 

Jesus makes us disciples to make other disciples. It is intergenerational. It’s reproducible. Therefore to Jesus view point anyone can become a disciple to lead someone else to become a disciple. It is a conscious understanding of a true disciple of Jesus the desire to mentor others to become Jesus disciples.

It usually involves someone who has demonstrated the ability to lead with respect and has been asked by someone of lesser experience to learn from, in order to further God’s kingdom. 

Why mentoring? 

Mentoring is needed today on many levels. 

Young married couples need to be mentored by older couples. Entrepreneurs need to be mentored by those who have been successful in business. Young men need to be mentored by older experienced men and young women need to be mentored by older spiritually mature women.

Mentoring provides accountability, stability, allows and encourages spiritual and emotional maturity. 

It knits together community which increases the over health of that community. 

When mentoring is properly done everyone benefits.

Mentoring is biblical. Moses mentored Aaron, Elijah mentored Elijah, David mentored Jonathan, Jesus mentored His apostles, and Paul mentored Timothy and so on.

Mentoring, apprentices, discipleship probably all overlap each other in terms of definition. 

Proverbs 27:17, “As iron sharpens iron so one friend sharpens another.”

To be continued...